India’s opener batsman Shikhar Dhawan divorced with her wife Ayesha Mukherjee after 8 years of marriage. This was a very shocking news in the world of cricket. Shikhar Dhawan married with Ayesha in 2012. And also, adopted her two daughters of previous marriage. Shikhar and Ayesha were blessed with baby boy in 2014.
Reason for Divorce
The reason for divorce are yet uncertain. However, both of them confirmed the news of divorce through their Instagram accounts.
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What di Ayesha Dhawan Said
Ayesha Dhawan posted on Instagram as:
Funny how words can have such powerful meanings and associations. I experienced this first hand as a divorcee. The first time I went through a divorce I was soooooooo [email protected] scared. I felt like I had failed and I was doing something so wrong at that time.
I felt as if I had let everyone down and even felt selfish. I felt that I was letting my parents down, I felt that I was letting my children down and even to some extent I felt as if I was letting God down. Divorce was such a dirty word.
So now imagine, I have to go through it a second time. Woooahhhhhh. That is terrifying. Being divorced once before already, felt like I had more at stake the second time round. I had more to prove. So when my second marriage broke down it was really scary. All the feelings I felt when I went through it the first time came flooding in. Fear, failure and disappointment x 100. What does this mean for me? How does this define me and my relationship to marriage?
Well, once I went through the necessary actions and emotions of what had happened I was able to sit with myself and see that I was fine, I was actually doing great, even noticed my fear had totally disappeared. The remarkable thing is I actually felt much more empowered. I realised my fear and the meaning I gave to the word divorce was my own doing.
So, once I realised this I started to redefine the word and the experience of divorce according to the way I wanted to see it and experience it.
❤️Divorce means choosing myself and not settling and sacrificing my own life for the sake of a marriage
❤️Divorce means even though you do your best and try your best things sometimes do not work out and that’s ok
❤️Divorce means I have had amazing relationships that have taught me great lessons to carry forward in new relationships
❤️Divorce means I am stronger and more resilient than I ever thought
❤️Divorce really means whatever meaning you give to it.
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About Shikhar Dhawan and Ayesha Mukherjee
Shikhar Dhawan is a left handed batsmen Indian cricketer, born on 5 December 1985, in Delhi. Dhawan made his ODI debut in 2010 against Australia. In 2013 he made test debut against Australia in Mohali. He has great achievements in his international cricket career.
Ayesha Mukherjee was born in West Bengal but shifted to Australia at the age of 8. She is a trained Athlete and a boxer.
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